Wednesday, August 29, 2012

still chugging a long

I wish I had lots of nice pictures of things to post here.  I have seen others' blogs and they are so nice and colorful. I guess that's actually what they do for a living and have lots of time and the know how.  I have none of that. Sorry.  You will just have to be bored with mine.

It seems since I started back to work I don't have a second extra.  I think that is because by the time I get home I am literally wiped out and can barely do anything.  Then I can't sleep at night , then I can't wake up in the mornings!!!

They said that radiation would make you fatigued.  They were not kidding.  I felt ok the first few weeks then it caught up with me.  BAM!!  Since I had no energy reserve to start with due to chemo, I have no energy on hand.  So I feel pretty good once I wake up... but ...when I do get out of bed I feel like I am about 100 years old.   My feet hit the floor and Can't walk.  My ankles and calves just do not want to bend.  My feet are numb and tingly.   I go to get my coffee cup and I can't hold it by the handle because it makes my fingers hurt.  I do some stretching and try to get my body going  again.  Welcome to my mornings.  About 3 pm everyday it happens.  That fuzzy headed fatigue, just don't feel good thing strikes.  I have to barrel though it because I have to be  at work and I want to try.  I feel like I can't enjoy my work right now. I feel bad most of the day.  I love to talk and get to know my patients, but right now  I could care less...just get them out so I can go home!!!  This is not me at all.

I have 8 more radiation treatments.  My bad boob is not causing me any problems.  One of the side effects from radiation they said would be redness, tenderness like a bad sunburn.  I have some redness but it doesn't bother me at all.  I can tell they are zapping me for longer zaps now.  I'l see what the next 8 bring.

It has been a strange journey.  I now sort of feel that everyone thinks I am well and over it all.  I know this is hard to understand.   I'm not wanting sympathy. I am so glad I am almost finished.  I have had amazing support thru this.  I think it is like I am better, I am working my hair is coming back so I must be OK!!  The real truth is ..I am ok, but I am not well, I am still surviving cancer, I still feel crappy  everyday, I am still waiting on my hair to grow so I don't look like a boy or I don't have a mullet hair cut.  I am still waiting to have energy and feel good so I can do things for my daughters wedding coming up.  I am still waiting to  feel like cooking a good meal most days.  I am still waiting to get my whole life back.   I miss doing all the things I enjoy.. I am still waiting to be ble to sleep thru the night without having take alot of sleep aids, and waking up with my mind a jumble mess and how am I going to feel today.

8 more..I can do this..then recover....I can do this...Please  continue to keep me in your prayers... I am still fighting and struggling.  I pray that God will continue to see me through.  I know he will.  Glenn is still my little engine.. tugging me along. He reminds me when I am low.

Thank you friends.  Thank you for following me thru and encouraging me by ready my posts.  You are my inspiration.

Loves and Hugs  Mel

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